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Dating & Marriage

Blind dates, couple culture, meeting the parents and what a Korean wedding really involves.

Couple culture

A young Korean couple smiling at each other over coffee at a sunny Seoul café terrace (AI-generated illustration)

연애

Dating a Korean boyfriend: the unwritten rules (and the K-drama myths)

Day-one anniversaries, nonstop KakaoTalk, couple outfits, who pays, 'oppa', meeting his parents and the army. What dating a Korean man is often like, why, and what's changing.

A smiling young couple in hanbok taking a selfie in a Seoul palace courtyard (AI-generated illustration)

연애

Dating a Korean girlfriend: the unwritten rules (and the ones you can ignore)

Check-in texts, 100-day anniversaries, couple outfits, who pays, 'oppa', her friends and her parents. The Korean dating habits worth knowing, why they exist, and how to talk about them without stereotypes.

Weddings

A bride and groom walking down a flower-lined runway in a dark, glamorous Korean wedding hall

하객

Going to a Korean wedding as a guest: what to wear, what to do and why it's over in an hour

The 30-minute ceremony, the envelope desk, the meal ticket, the group photo and the pyebaek. A friendly, step-by-step guide to being a guest at a Korean wedding, with what to wear and the mistakes to avoid.

Marriage pressure

A gift box of oranges and individually wrapped pears, the classic Korean present for a first visit

첫인사

Meeting your Korean partner's parents for the first time: the complete survival guide

What it means when a Korean partner says 'my parents want to meet you', what to bring, what to wear, what to call them, the questions they will ask, how to survive the meal, and the follow-up text that seals it.

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